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How To Heal After Being Cheated On By Your Partner

  Infidelity isn’t always the end of a marriage. Sometimes spouses choose to make it work, which takes considerable effort. There are a few ways to move past the event of a cheating spouse. While it’s true that, in some cases, people do not regret their actions, it’s important for the cheating spouse to express remorse for there to be forgiveness. There are also many honest conversations ahead about why the spouse cheated and how each person feels. The cheating spouse should consider adjusting their schedule so that they don’t feel tempted to cheat again. But, ultimately, healing after infidelity means rebuilding trust and marital therapy can be a big help with that.

I kicked my girlfriend out after a pizza delivery revealed she's cheating me

I lived with my girlfriend and one day she told me she was working late.  That night I ordered pizza and when the delivery guy arrived he seemed confused and said he had already delivered a big order (two pizzas, drinks, dessert) to my address about an hour earlier, but I hadn’t been home. She was. I didn’t confront her immediately but it felt off, so I checked our security camera the next day and saw a man I didn’t recognize entering our apartment around 8 PM and leaving with her around 11 PM. When I confronted her, she admitted she had been seeing a coworker for months. I ended things right away, but now her friends are saying I’m an AH for going behind her back and not trusting her explanation. I feel like I just put the pieces together and reacted to what I saw.